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The following Featured Post comes from TV Series Group 1, Thread 3. 1. The Sims': an interracial "Everyman" family? In many discussions and drive-by single posts, I have seen that there are people who feel that the Sims' are not the "poster family" of the interracial age. Bill's problems with "his other Bill", the disconnectedness to some aspects of the family, the interactions. 2. Part #1 I have to agree with the majority, they certainly were not the family I expected. To me they did not reflect an "everyday" family... I am a 40 hour working mother of three girls, I cook, I clean I do laundry, my husband also works a 40 hour "factory" job, to me the "Sims/Wilson" family were more of a "alternative/lifestyle", than a working class middle american blue collar kind of family. And also living in New York as they do, seeing a bi-racial couple is more of a norm, than here in "small town" USA. Let's talk "real world" here, where going into the local "Denny's", and not being served, and as far as Cicely going to Africa to find her "roots", the honest truth is the roots are right there in Queens, NY. I will continue tonight to watch part 2 in the series, but feel it does not in anyway reflect the issues that us in "middle america" face on a day to day basis in an interracial marrage. 3. Re: Part #1 First of all, I'm sorry about your daughter, Christina: even though it was a while ago, it know it hurts. 4. reservations I don't think that this family was the best choice to be the poster family for interracial couples (like it or not, they are, by virtue of being the only family portrayed in this series). My fear is that some of Bill Sims' irresponsible behavior toward his family (like going AWOL when his wife was sick, not coming to his daughter's birth) will misleadingly appear typical of African American males and/or interracial couples to the uneducated viewer, of which there must be many. If so the series could reinforce racist attitudes rather than undermining or challenging them. My point isn't to criticize Bill Sims (I'm sure he had his reasons) but the filmmaker's decision. If you are going choose only one family as the example of interracial marriage, why not pick one that is more typical and less likely to play into racist myths and stereotypes? 6. Poster Family? Look, guys,this is America, land of the non-conformist. Average is only math. Normal is and opinion. The Wilson-Sims family's real world isn't mine, but who says it isn't real? It's "AN American Love Story" not THE. 7. 3. The Sims' : an interracial "Everyman" family ? The Wilson-Sims may not be the "everyman family", but they certianly are remarkably like my family. No-one ever said that they were to represent middle america - in fact I don't think they want to " represent" anything. They are just who they are. I grew up with my musician father doing most of the cooking. It's good to finally see another family with that "reversal" of roles. I was tired of only see "traditional" families with "traditional" roles on television. What this says to me is that people may have tuned in to see an interracial family is like, but there are ways not related to race in which they are different from a TV or "everyman" family 10. "Typical interracial family"?? I agree with Iris, this family may not me typical, but it sure is like my family. I thought it was good to show a bit of the real life, on the road and at home, of a journeyman musician. How difficult and wearying it can be. I am very proud, myself, of my own musician husband's willingness to help at home, never seperating jobs into "women's" or "men's" work, just doing what's needed. The family shows a tremendous amount of love and support for eachother. I think that Bill's absences as mentioned on the show have to do with the ups and downs of a musicians life, as well as his admitted need to grow into the maturity needed to handle family responsibilities. Read more featured posts here or continue reading thread 3 from TV Series Group 1. |
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